I know you have a lot of more important and fun stuff to do (sleeping, for example) on a Saturday morning than reading this post. Still I’m talking ’cause as I’m sure you know from your experience – shutting up is not a talent God equipped (most of) us women with.
However, shutting up is overrated.
It’s just that your brain often can’t cut through your tiny attention span and get itself around the complex and profound statements we tend to make. Some of you start comprehending their potential of changing (your) lives only after we’ve figured out and have started taking action on the fact that you haven’t listened.
Our superior intellectual capability, as evident in our analyses of the most of complex of things – like the characters of you, your mum, our three friends, and a lot of other extremely important people like maids, drivers and unknown women wearing prettier clothes than us – is beyond your comprehension. Add to that our artistic gift of showing the same thing in infinite number of different lights while repeating it to you as many times. All of that combined … no I really don’t blame your tiny brain for finding it too much to grasp at one go.
For example, yesterday when I started having this indispensible and world-changing conversation with my husband over Whatsapp, the poor thing lost all sense of direction completely. I hope you wouldn’t.
Me (preparing to leave for home from work): Hey, do you know that finding a cab which would agree to take you to your destination is like finding a pebble in the ocean?
He: Yeah I know baby, I’m sorry. Have you started?
Me: First of all they insult me every day by showing about as much response to my prettiness (in deciding whether to refuse me) as a piece of furniture would…
He: Yeah I know baby, I’m sorry. Just get it done with, you know…
Me: Secondly they create opportunities out of thin air to yell at the person in front of them…
He: Ah…That’s familiar. We’re not talking about cabbies anymore… :D
Me: Looks like the objective of their life is to ruin your day…
He: Sometimes, yes. But common, not always…
Me: I’ve seldom met one who doesn’t make a thousand entirely unnecessary and unhelpful complaints about life, trying to hold you responsible for them. The traffic jam. The weather. The city.
He: Well I’ve got used to it after spending all this time together…
Me: Sometimes I feel interacting with them is a bigger challenge to your sanity than the traffic jam…
He: The traffic jam??? I say life!
Me: The biggest glitch with them is that they don’t need any provocation. You’d think that they’ll mind their own business if you mind yours…
He: But with experience I know that’s not gonna happen. So at the slightest sign of trouble I try to bring the situation under control with sweet words and kisses….
Me: What????
He: Oh you’re still talking about taxi drivers? I’m sorry I kind of drifted out of context…
haha.. that was a good one :P
Thanks Arena. :)
“He: Oh you’re still talking about taxi drivers? I’m sorry I kind of drifted out of context…” lol…